Self Help-Relaxation

Brief Relaxation Exercises

Below are listed some brief relaxation exercises that you may wish to employ anytime
during your day, in between classes, before exams, while studying, before a presentation
or speech, prior to a big date or an appointment.


For all of these exercises, it is best to be seated, eyes closed, feet flat on the floor
or crossed at the ankles, and hands resting comfortably in the lap. Begin each exercise
with a deep breath that you let out gently. As you let it out, feel yourself beginning
to relax already. Gentle Arousal: After the exercise, slowly and gently activate by breathing
a little more deeply, wiggling your fingers and toes, and opening your eyes at your own

Tense-Relax (General directions first) Clench your fists. While keeping
them clenched, pull your forearms tightly up against your upper arms. While keeping those
muscles tense, tense all the muscles in you legs. While keeping all those tense, clench
your jaws and shut your eyes fairly tight...not too tightly. Now while holding all those
tense, take a deep breath and hold it for 5 seconds...Then, let everything go all at once.
Feel yourself letting go of all your tensions. Just enjoy that feeling for a minute as
your muscles let go more and more. Actually, if we had a finely-tuned electromyograph hooked
up to you measuring the level of tension in your muscles, it would show that you relax
more and more and more for up to 20 minutes. Just enjoy focusing, gently, on letting go
(Arouse gently).

Heaviness and Warmth (General directions first) Just imagine that
your feet and legs are getting heavier and heavier and warmer and warmer. It’s almost as
if you are wearing some lead boots. Feet and legs heavy and warm, heavy and warm. Now,
imagine your stomach and the whole central portion of your body getting warm...warm and
relaxed. My forehead is and cool. And my breathing is regular...easy
and regular. Just feel the warm and heaviness spread all over the body. (Arouse gently).

Breathing Your Body Away (General directions first) Gently focus
your attention on your feet and legs. Be aware of all the sensations from your feet and
legs. Now, inhale a long, slow breath, and as you do, breathe in all the sensations from
your feet and legs. In your mind’s eye, imagine that you are erasing this part of your
body. Now, as you exhale, breathe out all those sensations. Once again, breathe in your
feet and legs, and exhale it from your body, so that, in your mind you can see only from
your hips up. Now, with another long breath, breathe in all the parts of your body to your
neck, and, as you exhale, breathe it away...Now, beginning with your fingers, breathe in
your fingers, hands, wrists and arms, and exhale them away...Now, your neck and
you breathe in, imagine your neck and head being erased and, now, breathe them away. Let’s
go back over the whole body in one breath, beginning with the feet. A long slow breath
in, and as you do, erase any little parts that still remain. Now, a long slow breath out,
as you exhale all the remaining parts. Just sit quietly for a minute and enjoy feeling
yourself relax deeper and deeper. (Gently arouse)

A Favorite Scene, Place or Person (General directions first) As you’re
sitting quietly, recall, in your mind, the most relaxing thought you can. Perhaps it’s
a favorite place, a vacation spot or favorite retreat of some sort; or it might be a person
with whom you feel at peace, or some scene-a meadow, or whatever works for you. Take a
few seconds to get that in mind...Now, see or imagine that in your mind. Be sure to feel
those good feelings you have when you are in that place. Just let them take over your whole
awareness...If your thoughts wander, just take them gently back to that peaceful, relaxing
place. (Arouse gently)

Ideal Relaxation (General directions first) With your eyes closed,
take a moment to create, in your mind’s eye, an ideal spot for relaxation. You can make
it any place real or imagined and furnish it any way you want. Wear the clothes you are
most comfortable in. Enjoy, now, in your own mind, going there. You’ll want to feel at
ease and melllow as you lounge in your ideal place for relaxation. Just enjoy it for a
minute...(Gentle arousal)

Cool Air In, Warm Air Out (General directions first) With your eyes
closed, and while relaxing quietly, gently focus on the end of your nose. As you breathe
in, feel the air coming in the tip of your nose. As you breathe out, feel the air coming
out the tip of your nose...Notice that the air coming in is cooler than the air going out...Gently
focus on the cool air coming in, and the warm air going out. As your attention wanders,
just gently bring it back to the tip of your nose...(Gentle arousal)

Focus on a Word ( General directions first) Pick some word which
has “good” vibrations associated with it for you-a word which you associate with relaxation,
comfort, peace. It could be a word such as “serenity” or “cool, peaceful, joy, free,” etc...Now,
just let that word hold the center of your thoughts, gently bring it back to that word...After
a while, perhaps your mind will drift to other gentling, restful thoughts. If so, just
let it wander...When it does drift to stressful thoughts, move back to your original word.
(Gentle arousal)

Something for Use Anywhere (General directions first) With practice,
you will become more adept at relaxing, while awake, anywhere. As you do, here’s a way
to let yourself relax while going about your day. You can do it while walking, sitting
in class, taking a test, on a date, etc. First, smile. Yes, smile to remind yourself that
you don’t actually have all the cares of the world on your shoulder-Only a few of them.
Then, take a long, deep breath, and let it out. Now, take a second long deep breath, and
as you let it out, feel yourself releasing the tensions in your mind and in your body.
Just let yourself relax more and more, as you continue whatever you were doing. (Gentle